Wątek: Love, cupples, cheating ETC

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21 z 102: damien-rainey

me too about the toxicity thing.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
29.04.2023 23:33

22 z 102: marchoffmann

I'm sorry for you. But why did she want to be with him in the first place? I don't get why that event happened in the first place.
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
29.04.2023 23:34

23 z 102: damien-rainey

apparently, for her, it's all about location. i'm in south carolina, US, and she's in New York, US.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
29.04.2023 23:36

24 z 102: damien-rainey

and the ex is somewhere in the middle, but more toward her end.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
29.04.2023 23:36

25 z 102: marchoffmann

Wow. I actually don't think she loved you that far then. Maybe sounds harsh but must be
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
29.04.2023 23:37

26 z 102: damien-rainey

i agree.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
29.04.2023 23:39

27 z 102: damien-rainey

we made it a month and five days. wow. i thought my year couldn't get any worse. i find out i have a generalized anxiety disorder, and a panick disorder to boot, then this crap happens.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
29.04.2023 23:47

28 z 102: ArcticMoon

It's very sad, to be honest. If someone, then I absolutely understand your pain. I had a boyfriend, with whom we were together for a year and a half, and then he spent a weekend with his previous classmate and, ehm, we can say ex from time to time. They kissed eachother and hell knows what else, and then I made a painful choice, left him because it wasn't the first time happening, and not the second either. Nowadays that he sees me happy, he wants me back, but I just can't trust anymore. I'm perfectly happy with someone who I love by whole heart, even if we are really far from eachother.
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30.04.2023 15:48

29 z 102: marchoffmann

And this is what I mean. If you really love, distance just makes that love grow in another way.
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
30.04.2023 16:06

30 z 102: damien-rainey

exactly.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
30.04.2023 20:46

31 z 102: damien-rainey

i've been down that road before too. the sad part is that it's happened to me so much that i've become desinsitized to it, and the only thing i felt when it happened was i was shocked for a while, and then i was fine. i'm looking for someone who gets me, doesn't judge me, and is very gentle. with me, because my heart is so scarred, that if someone makes the wrong move and destroys it, then i will be essentially left with nothing except an empty cavity where my heart used to be, metephorrically speaking, of course.
-- (ArcticMoon):
It's very sad, to be honest. If someone, then I absolutely understand your pain. I had a boyfriend, with whom we were together for a year and a half, and then he spent a weekend with his previous classmate and, ehm, we can say ex from time to time. They kissed eachother and hell knows what else, and then I made a painful choice, left him because it wasn't the first time happening, and not the second either. Nowadays that he sees me happy, he wants me back, but I just can't trust anymore. I'm perfectly happy with someone who I love by whole heart, even if we are really far from eachother.

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There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
30.04.2023 20:52

32 z 102: damien-rainey

i think not having a physical connection made it a little easier to get over her. i imagine it would really suck if me and her had the physical part.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
30.04.2023 22:49

33 z 102: marchoffmann

For sure. Because imagine if you were used to hug and all that stuff, knowing those moments would be lost forever can be like a hit that completely kicks you out of the way for a while. On the other hand, I imagine distant relationships way more unstable, especially if it's online.
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
30.04.2023 23:15

34 z 102: damien-rainey

she just messaged me a couple minutes ago on whatsapp and accused me of blocking her, and i told her to leave me alone, saying that she's damaged me enough.
There is no easy way to let someone down. my advice, just find a way to work things out, and maybe it'll all turn out for the good.
30.04.2023 23:54

35 z 102: techboy

There was something that happened and... how do I say this? so there's this person in this class and i need to tell her something but idk how to tell her and ugh this is hard to talk about
don't snitch or you're a bitch!
01.05.2023 17:12

36 z 102: techboy

basicly what I am asking from you guys is. How do I tell her?
don't snitch or you're a bitch!
01.05.2023 17:19

37 z 102: marchoffmann

@post 34 wow I'm sorry. But you've done the right choice. Stay strong.
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
01.05.2023 17:20

38 z 102: marchoffmann

@techboy, if this is just since a day or a few, wait a little. You're quite young still and there's a difference between love as a child and love as a teen if I can say that. If you're really sure about it, be honest. Try to not studder, tell her the truth. It is hard but not impossible.
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
01.05.2023 17:22

39 z 102: techboy

yeah, this is going on for a few months now, and idk how to tell her though what do i say.
don't snitch or you're a bitch!
01.05.2023 17:22

40 z 102: marchoffmann

Be yourself. Don't think about how to behave, how to act cool or anything. Speak it out, alone and be only yourself. Because she's likely gonna notice if you're behaving differently.
Ist euch denn nicht klar , dass für Menschen , die Unrecht tun, in Gottes Reich kein Platz sein wird? Täuscht euch nicht: Wer sexuell unmoralisch lebt, Götzen anbetet, die Ehe bricht, wer sich von seinen Begierden treiben lässt und homosexuell verkehrt, wird nicht in Gottes Reich kommen. 1. Korinther 6, 9
01.05.2023 17:23